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Nov 11, 2008
baby quinn's mommy
Mom to a 3 year old baby girl with severe reflux: g-tube, nissen fundoplication. dx: RAD, failure to thrive, DGE, epilepsy, sleep apnea, paraesohphogeal hernia, high lactic acid there's more "unknown disease"... Hospitalized 12 times, PT graduate! ST graduate! OT graduate! Current Meds: singulair, zopeonex, pulmicort, reglan, Keppra, Trileptal, vitamin B6, Veramyst. Current weight: 34 lb. Current height: 39". g-tube dependent, oxygen 1-2LpM all day and night PIC: Ms. Quinn
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OT: why are guys so freakin stupid!!!!
And selfish and wrong and illogical and frustrating and big headed??? AAAAAHHHHH!!!!! Today I am going to attempt to salvage my relationship, if I am not happy with the outcome, I am leaving him. The boy has the emotions of a pregnant woman... no, they are worse... and i can't be his savior to pull him out of his dark hole and that's what he wants. Well, the way I look at life is that it throws a number of curve balls at ya. If all you do is look at your problems and say "woe is me", then you are going to find yourself in a constant whirlwind of stress and expectations that nobody will ever be able to meet. I'm a happy person and hate being around sadness all the time and he won't ever let me in to see why he is being sad so if he won't even let me help him a little, i dont' need to be drug down with him. Wow!!! I can't believe i vented like that to ya'll. he he. -Sarah
Nov 11, 2008
engin117
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Sarah,

I am sorry things are rough for you right now. I am thinking of you and wishing u the very best.

Nov 11, 2008
amber f
Don't apologize we are always here for you. Men can be real stupid sometimes. My dh keeps everything inside to and it can be like pulling teeth to get him to say what is actually bothering him. Whatever outcome you have you are a great person, mother and friend who is so deserving of finding someone that is perfect for you. ((HUGS))
Nov 11, 2008
michelle&aurora
Aurora born March 17, 2007
3 years, 8 months old
Weighs 25.8 lbs
8 lbs 11 oz at birth.
Recovered Chronic Projectile Vomiter
Prevacid Free since September 08
Egg allergy diagnosed Jan 26/09
Has a Pectus Excavatum
Has an Epipen
oh no, Sarah, you got an emotionally needy one too?!!!! Ugh, I feel ya there girl. It never ceases to amaze me how some guys can be so down in the dumps and need constant love and reassurance and "woe is me"....because seriously (no offence men) but if they walked a day or two in our shoes, they'd be kissing the ground we walk on and sobbing like little babies to save them. I know men have feelings too, but come on...if we can wipe someone else's butt multiple times a day, clean food splattered on EVERYTHING multiple times a day, sit in the bathroom while your kid swears they need to pee for 20 frickin' minutes, deal with tears, whining, tantrums, baths, eye ointments, reflux meds, bottle weaning, ear infections, seizures and feeding tubes (just throwing us all in there together).....IF we can do all of this on a daily basis and STILL have a smile on our face at the end of the day when we kiss our munchkins goodnight.....then what the heck are YOU whining about, kwim???? I have very little patience with my own dude when it comes to this, but he can be so selfish, it doesn't matter to him if I licked the food off the walls, he'd STILL be worse off than me, hehehehe. But I love him, so I grit my teeth, and go into "poor baby" mode. I hope you can work it out with him. If you truly love him and feel he loves you, you gotta work on communication. But seriously, girl, I FEEL YOUR PAIN. How is Quinny bear today?
Nov 11, 2008
maggiemom
Maggie is now 3 years old and reflux free (knock on wood). I still check in some to see how everybody is doing :) Hugs to all!
Oh no...I will say this: my dh isn't emotional but I know what it's like to live with someone that won't tell you what's going on so that you can actually help. It's terrible! My dh lives in a shell and I have rarely been let in for 11yrs. You should tell him that you have a dd to care for and that if he needs something from you, he needs to be clear about what it is. If he can't be clear, you don't have the energy left to try to figure it out. (jmo)

hugs!

Nov 11, 2008
mom2halleyann
Donnessa, mom to Halley born 3/10/07
Reflux (mostly) resolved at 14 months
and Addison born 8/17/09. Currently exclusively bf and on 7.5mg Prevacid
Grrr...and they call us drama queens. I hope that he comes around when he realizes how unhappy his attitude makes you. Good luck with whatever you decide.
Check with your
doctor first!