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Sep 07, 2008
Maggie is now 3 years old and reflux free (knock on wood). I still check in some to see how everybody is doing :) Hugs to all!
Not a good day-mil update
I guess it really is gonna be up and down y'all. I am soooooo tired. I just have to "talk to" someone. I try to be so strong for dh and his dad and sister. I show very little emotion.

My mil was very down today. She started having pains last night and it continued through the night into the morning. At the 9am visit, she told fil that she has given up and she can't fight any more. Well, I don't have to tell you how that went over.

At 11am she was somewhat better. She talked a little. Throughout the day it was up and down. We went in at 4pm to find her trying to take her oxygen mask off...crying "somebody help me" over and over. She can only whisper so the nurses had no idea. Thank God it was visiting time. She didn't have a nurse's button that she could get to. I made sure she had one before I left. UGH!

She is still using a bi-pap machine off and on throughtout the day. When she does ANYTHING her stats drop. If she gets upset, tries to eat orally, anything...her oxygen drops. WHAT IS CAUSING THIS? we have no idea and the drs don't either. They sent off the lung "stuff" yesterday. Maybe that will give some kind of answer. I just don't know what to think. I've taken her pics of the girls. I talk to her about them. I told her that I know she's a control freak (like me), but she's gonna have to let the rest of us handle it right now. I told her when she gets out of the cvru, she can have the control back.

I want to be's hard. Dh braces himself every time he goes back to see her. I'm staying home tomorrow. He's going up in the morning. His boss is being really awesome about his days off.

Please keep praying for her!

Sep 07, 2008
BRANDON-Zantac and Bethanacol; Neocate formula, 2 sets of ear tubes, Adnoids removed, Vasomotor Rhinits, Asthma. Currently on: Xyzal, Omnaris, Flovent and Xopenex,
AUBREY-Zegerid 2x a day, Soy Milk, Tubes put in and adnoids removed (11-7), Hypotonia, ECI therapy for low muscle tone throughout trunk and hips, oral motor issues and sensory integration issues, delayed speech, Teething, probiotics
PICTURE: Aubrey in her cute cat outfit. If you look you can see how her right foot turns in. She walks that way as well. It is not as exaggerated in the morning's but gets worse in the evenings. This was after her nap.
I am sure you are both emotionally and physically drained. Just know you are doing everything you can and the rest is up to her. I hope she continues to fight-for the girls sake if nothing else. You need to remember not to forget to take time for yourself!!! I'll be praying!
Sep 07, 2008
Jessica, Mommy to Jedd, severe reflux, severe food and oral aversions, Finally G tube free!!! VSD repair 4-24-07 (open heart surgery), hypospadias, repaired 3 times and Ear tubes Visit Jedd at his CB site:
I am soo sorry to her that MIL is not doing as well today as the last few days. I hope they can figure out what is going on with the O2. that is certainly scary I'm sure.
Sep 07, 2008
Kathryn, Pager Volunteer and mommy to Emily Mia 02/04/07. 3 years old with GERD. 30mg Prevacid and Pepcid AC. Mylanta needed for flares. Failed prilosec med switch. Tried and failed many med weans but GERD and pain are well controlled. Functional constipation. Reoccurring SBBO. Suspected IBD or autoimmune disease. Resolved issues: MSPI, CSID (acquired), Stage 2 kidney reflux, Chronic diarrhea.
Audrey Meadow 06/20/08. born 34/35 weeks. Still b/f and eats everything! ftt and chronic constipation.
good for you for being so assertive, that would piss me off beyond belief to find my mom or my mil in the same situation unable to call for help, my eyes welled up in tears reading that. I know how it feels to go through the process of loosing someone very close to you, it's tough... i'm glad you have us to talk to. i will keep your family in my prayers *hugs*
Sep 07, 2008
Melissa - Mommy to Sebastian, born 9/28/07 @ 7 lbs 7 oz and 20.75 in. At docs at 12 months: 27 pounds and 32 in! Good grief! GERD - currently on Prevacid suspension (liquid equivalent of 45 mg a day). Allergic to dairy, soy, eggs, wheat, all treenuts, peanuts, fish, shellfish, peas, sesame, bananas, barley, coconut, dust, dust mite, dog, cat, latex. Seasonal allergies. Oral Allergy Syndrome (OAS). Neocate only - no solids - until further notice (drinks and loves water, too). Loves his doggie, our rescued Treeing Walker Coonhound, Louise, even though he is allergic to her. Louise will make your doctor a homemade pie if you would like her to. PHOTO: We couldn't do a cake on Sebastian's birthday, but that didn't stop him from tossing around the contents of a big bowl of popcorn! He now tries to eat it when we play with popcorn, so no more of that game.... :(
I'm so sorry, Melissa. I'll keep praying for all of you. I hope tomorrow is a better day for all.
Sep 07, 2008
ethan's mom
Meridith, mom to Ethan born 4/23/08. Ethan was diagnosed with reflux at about 1 month. He has been on Zantac (unsuccessful) and Prevacid. He is currently taking 7.5 mg of Prevacid 2x per day, with good results. We also suspect MPI, though this hasn't been confirmed by a doctor yet.
Ethan is mostly breastfed, though we are doing one bottle of soy formula each day. We also do some homeade "solids' including, so far pears, avocado, sweet potato, and peaches.
I'll continue to pray as well. (((hugs)))
Sep 07, 2008
Sharon, Mom to Elyse, 17 mos (15 mos adjusted-preemie). Zantac/Elecare. History of: Respiratory Distress Syndrome with ventilation/CPAP/cannula, tpn, n/g tube, PDA, jaundice, apnea, bradycardia/tachycardia, severe anemia, blood transfusion, reflux, Sandifer's Syndrome, intestinal malrotation, hemangiomas, MSPI, feeding issues. ICU inpatient 53 days! 2 surgeries, 2 UGIs, barium enema, pH probe, endoscopy. Developmentally on target now! PIC: Yobaby Beard
Gosh, I can't even remember anymore what started all this, but it is awful what you are all going thru. Glad work is being supportive for DH
Sep 07, 2008
Tracey, mom to Katie. Diagnosed with reflux at 3 weeks and put on Zantac. At 8 months old she was removed from Zantac as it was giving her migraines, currently on Prevacid. Switched to Elecare since she is not gaining weight; trialing solids after being off for a month. Geneticist said reason she isn't gaining weight is she is stubborn. Upcoming appts.: Neurologist for developmental delay and EGD scheduled for September. She is one funny baby!
Hugs to you and prayers will continue!
Sep 08, 2008
Maggie is now 3 years old and reflux free (knock on wood). I still check in some to see how everybody is doing :) Hugs to all!
Thanks y'all! I'm gonna try to have a fun day with Mags. I haven't had one of those in a long time.
Sep 08, 2008
amber f
Have a great day with Mags. I've been thinking of you. Hang in threre.
Sep 08, 2008
Worry Wart mom to
27 mo. reformed "happy spitter"
34.8lbs , 37in tall(oct)
Diagnosed A/R at 6 wks
Zantac until 1yr then Prevacid
Med free since February 08
peanut & egg allergies...still
Zoo Boo Trick-or-Treating (pic).
Oh boy, so sorry to hear this. Hopefully they will figure this out and she will get better. keep talking to us. ~Ronya
Sep 08, 2008
PAGER Volunteer Services Coordinator
Melina 7/24/02 now reflux free!!
Ella 5/3/05 GERD, asthma, hypotonia, food intolerances, esophagitis, IBS //
Ava 5/3/05 asthma, food allergies
Pic: My girls! They are getting so big!
We are thinking about you and praying for you. I hope your MIL heals quickly and will be back to her old self soon. Enjoy a fun day with Maggie! ((HUGS))
Sep 08, 2008
Maggie is now 3 years old and reflux free (knock on wood). I still check in some to see how everybody is doing :) Hugs to all!
So far today, dh said she's having a WONDERFUL day. He said she's eating stuff, joking around, sitting up and lots of stuff. It's so amazing one day to the next how different things are. I think she was just in the dumps yesterday.
Check with your
doctor first!